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A Day in the Life #17921: Midsummer, Jujutsu Kaisen, and Filling in Some J-Pop Gaps

That’s my photo of last night’s sunset, marking the day-time end of midsummer (circa 22.00, give or take a minute). As a bonus you get to see our window screen. Now say, “Thank you, Doug’s window screen, for keeping out the bugs.” Show some care, Space Pilgrims, for these windows screens are good friends of mine.

Currently it seems a bit too hot for even the insects to be out, at least during the heat of day. Still, its nice to have the screens at night when the temp is low enough to make having windows open worth it and the buggies are just fine with stinging.

Anyhow, midsummer. Maybe that’s met hoofdletter, eh? Midsummer. Capital M. Behind Halloween, it is possibly the date of the year that I feel the most spiritual about despite genuinely considering summer to be my least favorite season by some margin. I am autumn’s child and do ok in the winter while enjoying enough of the spring-time that I forgive it mostly for wrecking me with pollen.

Summer, though? Bah.

I hate the heat. I am of mixed-feelings about storms. I don’t like drought. I’ve also been tied up in academia for long enough that summertime was always a strange liminal moment. I liked working with students. Even though I usually had projects that benefited from an extended quiet, it was never quite the same. Never the same joy.

One of my primary summer memories was in undergrad just walking around the campus during summer when everyone was gone. This was UAH in the late 90s, early 00s era. When the campus was almost entirely commuter instead of just mostly commuter. What scant campus life was holding on by a thread during Fall and Spring semesters popped out of existence in the summer interim.

There was such a striking sense of quiet, of nothingness, it depressed me more than any shadows or stormy weather.

Midsummer, though? I like midsummer. For me, the return of the dark seems more important than the return of the light. As the saying goes…there are no sweeter words than this: nothing lasts forever.

It’s good to be reminded.

This afternoon I finished off the last couple of volumes of Jujutsu Kaisen. I thought it was perfectly fine. That’s about all the praise I have for it. It was interesting in how hard it tried to justify its ever expanding rules of sorcery and cursed spirits and dozens of other classifications that were forced into being to justify single plot points. The world was boring as hell, the characters are kind of fun, the character designs were nice, and the story never trusted itself to slow the hell down.

My absolute favorite portion was when Gege Akutami would toss in inserts. That dried up more and more towards the end (something he himself calls out in the final few pages).

I might do a fuller review but probably not. Besides the above, my primary comment would be that the story would have been better at 40-50 volumes instead of the 30+1 we got. And maybe half the characters. We were supposed to care about characters taking 10-pages to die when they only had 2-pages to speed run their backstory? Having some downtime would have made it feel like flesh instead of just fancy skin. The between-the-lines that was there tended to be stuff I liked but it ended up feeling like I was reading the end-game crossover arc of multiple series that mostly existed in Akutami’s head.

Especially when the last few volumes are just constant “OH, but what if I used a triple third strike reverse widdershins life beam yellow hawk cry” and then someone going “its over!” only for the yellow hawk cry to get bested immediately by a filtered water stream double strength shatterspoon or some crap.

It’s cool but when you can endlessly invent new moves and rules and twists it feels less like a world and more like two kids shouting at each other in a sandbox after school.

To the 15-year-old kid who considered it the most exciting thing he ever read: don’t worry about me. I’m old and cranky.

On other happy media consumption notes, I realized there were a few patches in my general Japanese music collection I wanted to fill. The long and short being that across this past month I picked up some albums by Marie Ueda, tiny yawn, Aooo, Monthly Shonen Irony, Porno Graffiti, L’arc-en-ciel, and cinnamons. I also got Mono’s newest album, but I’ve been following them a long time. And tuki. just released a new song so I got that as well.

My plan is to avoid the heat by just jamming to tunes and maybe getting back into solo play stuff that took a big backseat lately.

If I try another manga series any time soon, I’m thinking Dorohedoro, maybe. I’ve only ever read volume of it but thought it was neat. That, or I might finally read Gantz to completion. I’ve read it twice before it was finished and never went back to finish out the missing pieces.

A Day in the Life #17903: Exams, Gamera, and Lunch

I like how when you look at my lunch from today, it looks like the kind of food you’d see in a prison film or otherwise a movie meant to suggest the person is being punished for eating. It was good, mind. Peanut butter and jelly sandwich with orange slices and a spotty banana. I liked it, it just doesn’t quite sell itself.

Last night, we had our first exam for our Nederlands Cursus. The oral portion. We had done the writing [fine], reading [mostly fine], and listening [somewhat fine] portions prior to the class. The reading had one portion that felt like it was suddenly quite advanced but I made it work. The listening had a limit to the number of times you could play the file (3) and I found this out after playing one of the clips twice to just the cadence of the speaker down. Added some spice.

The oral portion was probably the most stressed I have been while taking a test in a good minute, though.

It ended up going fairly well but when answering the question “Waar woon jij?” I had a strange blank and started to talk about living in Huntsville, Alabama. I mean, it was in language. That might count as my first senior moment.

Second glitch was when trying to figure out how to ask Kaz if they liked swimming (“Zwem jij graag?”) and my brain kept trying to force the “graag” to the front (“Graag zwem jij?”). I just couldn’t unlock it for a half second. The teacher fussed as I tried glancing through my notes but my brain unlocked after a second.

It is a weird sensation to be on the other side of the teaching process, but always good for long-time academics like me to have that pain, I suppose.

After our class, I got a package that had the two Arrow box-sets for Gamera (Showa and Heisei). I’m in the camp that feels like Heisei Gamera is just about absolute peak tokusatsu. We watched Gamera 2: Attack of Legion and I had a grand old time. One of my favorite movies of all time, and high up on the kaiju flick rating for me. I appreciate that Gamera 3 is overall a more interesting movie but what makes it interesting somewhat requires the other two moves of the box-set.

I do have the even bigger all-Gamera, all-the-time boxset from Arrow but it’s one of those encyclopedia sized numbers that makes it kind of hard to get the movies out without lots of faith. Having the individually boxed blu-rays is nice in that regard.

As a final note, had a strange dream last night. The bits I remember, I mean. The dream was third person (not involving me) and was something like a very-extended movie trailer. A group of friends doing stupid stuff.

At the very end, four of the friends are in a truck — it was a kind of smaller truck, but somehow one of the friends was sitting on the dashboard looking backwards, dream-logic — and one of the friends start talking about wanting to die and how he hopes it hurt. He then pulls out some sort of explosive device and starts playing with it and it starts counting down.

The guy on the dashboard reaches over and grabs his hand and the two (out of four) are waiting for death together. It had the vibe of a nightmare though the scene was ridiculously “shot” like some 90s movie.

Right as I was waking up, the dream had the device fly out of the truck and go across a field and blow up harmlessly…maybe. It was an odd experience like I was recalling something I had seen but it did not quite happen. Like my brain had scripted out more of a dream and then wanted to try and get to a good stopping spot.

Oeps! De afvoer is ontploft!

This past weekend, a pretty notable stormfront moved through and not only dropped a good amount of rain, but also did weird stuff to the pressure.

Somewhere in there, plus an undiscovered bit of blockage in our outgoing pipes (presumably), the extra water + “wax-sealed bottle” effect + pressure ups-and-downs resulted in several liters of rancid water burping back into our garage.

To quote my description shared with a friend at the time:

I could tell you what it smelled like, but you’d never eat Taco Bell again.

It was rank and it covered most everything in the garage.

Kaz took charge and got a lot of stuff cleaned and since then I’ve done spot disinfecting as I locate a place that obvious needs it and, frankly, it all needs it. Spiritual taint abounds.

We called a professional who came out and got the pipes cleaned out and washed back out the sediment and such that had been shoved forcibly into our system.

Now I’m washing dishes with a sense of dread. Just waiting to hear The Burp again.

Converting My Couch into an All-Day Nest

Last week, a growing pain in the right ankle/calf divide grew increasingly until now, when I am taking pretty much a full on breather from the whole moving thing.

This is by way of introducing my “Avoiding | Reducing Chronic Pain All-Day Resting Nest of a Couch”:

You can see the expert skill of repurposing the back cushions into a resting place for my head and elevated legs. Kind of thing you don’t learn in those fancy-pants colleges and whathaveyou.

Ah, good times. Great times.

On the other hand, I have already finished off two books today and starting a third, so there is that. I’m just going stir crazy enough that I’m going to put aside the “all day rest” for a portion of the day and do a very, very slow stationary bike workout. Something like the equivalent of just floating on your back and letting the wind take you across the lake while you paddle here or there to stop from slamming into gators.

“Don’t float on your back so long you drift into gators,” isn’t, but feels like it could be, a proper Alabama saying.

Bonus sad times: my favorite black jacket which I have worn for…nearly (?) twenty-years finally had its zipper break. It was obvious that it was starting to break down but still…

Goodbye my old friend.

De kleine, gele spin die me gebeten heeft

After a rainy afternoon yesterday, we had a pretty sunset in Grimbergen.

This is not a post about sunsets. I just did that to be nice for those who twitch at certain topics.

This is about spiders, spiders upon my person, and the things which happened next. Only continue if you can handle such things.

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Why Duolingo Perhaps Requires a Bit More Caution

I won’t really go into great or mighty detail about the ins-and-outs of Duolingo. But, there is a regular exercise where you repeat back a phrase it says to you — and has shown on the screen, as above — and then it…judges. I’m not precisely sure how, but it highlights a number of words that you said right versus not and then if you get a certain percentage of words or certain key words correct then it passes you. It’s something that can be very useful to practice while learning a language.

But, it’s often quite buggy. At least on my phone. Sometimes it fails me before I can speak. Sometimes I get a pass despite mumbling. I have occasionally had to figure out how to say the word incorrectly in the “expected” way to get it to register I was speaking.

THEN, Space Pilgrims, we have the phrase: Zij is zeventien.

It’s one of those Dutch phrases that I think is pretty immediately understandable by folks who can read English, but let’s save that for half a second down the road.

It failed me with that a week or so ago. I passed all the other glitches and mistakes I made, but not that phrase. There’s a place where you can visit your past mistakes and correct them — it’s a bit odd since you tend to do that in the lesson itself, but it’s a nice way to see things that maybe tripped you up — and it has sat there the whole time. No matter how I say it, it doesn’t register. I have recorded Duolingo itself saying it. I have used translation text-to-speech apps to say it.

I even one day, this past week, reached a near breaking point where I just shouted it in a variety of pronunciations.

Zij is sayvayteen.
ZAY ES SEVENTY!
ZI AS ZEBENTAN!

Etc.

It was only after I had had my several minute shouting match at my phone that I realized that my windows were open, and drapes pulled back, so it was quite probably audible to anyone walking by on the street (and our neighbors) that I am shouting variations of “Zij is zeventien!” on loop.

Which meant I was shouting, in Dutch, “She is seventeen!,” on repeat. For minutes. And anyone who glanced into the window would have seen me holding my phone while doing it.

I would like to apologize to my fellow Americans abroad that I am doing absolutely nothing good to improve our relationship with the lovely Belgian people. Whoops.

Bonus fun fact, though: If I tell Duolingo that “I can’t speak right now” it auto-passes the exercise for 100%. Which I 100% abuse on almost daily basis to get all the dang Daily Missions speed cleared.

The Easter Sink Incident

I am a big fan of home repair. I’m not saying it’s easy. Hell, it’s often quite hard. There are plenty of times when you want to call a professional. Still, I like home repair a lot.

It’s one of the Tiers of Ownership that I believe in. A bit of control. A realization of what you have. Like cooking. Or posting your content to a resource that you have actual stakes in upkeeping.

This is a story about when home repair goes wrong.

On Easter Sunday, 5 April 2026, I was doing one of those gnarly-but-necessary tasks: cleaning out a deep fryer. I needed to refresh it because I was going to cook some vegan nuggets to go with our usual Sunday waffle meal.

I went into the water closet downstairs to wash my hands and a few seconds later noticed the sink was not draining. To clarify, it was draining but only if really full and only a small amount until it got about 1/3 full and then stopped.

We had some clogs upstairs in the shower and Kaz had worked on fixing those — later I realized the clogs are less like a traditional clog and possibly a mechanical aspect causing a bit of a vacuum/pressure problem but I have not solved that yet — and we were convinced that this new problem was somehow a child of the old problem. I tried plunging. We tried running water up to near the top of the sink to see if we could some pressure to release. Nothing was working.

Kaz unscrewed the screw holding in the drain guard. Let me illustrate with a picture.

The screw there in the middle. We wanted that out so that we could try and see what thing might be blocking the water flow. Past that part of the sink, you get this:

Something like a p-trap but not quite. I mean. We tried using a couple of tools to see if we could figure out where something was blocking the flow from the sink through this device.

Nothing was working.

We put a weak-but-potent-enough mixture in there to help break up clogs but had the problem that water simple wasn’t flowing enough. I would fill the sink up and let it slowly drain to the 1/3 mark. Did this on loop.

After maybe an hour or so, a time when I should have 100% been working on making Sunday dinner, there was no real progress.

Kaz had committed to running to a shop — few were open on Easter Sunday, as you can imagine — and while getting ready for that, I decided to reach under and feel around to try and figure out if there was supposed to be someway for us to access the piping system.

At that point, the whole under-pipe just fell completely out and dumped a sink full of water+chemicals all over me, the wall, the floor, and the tools we had been using.

Luckily, Kaz had not quite left yet and so I had helped wrangling cats and cleaning up a hell of a mess.

Turned out the pipe had a lot of soap-scum built up, along with the other bits such pipes accumulate, and they had somehow wedged into the section right as it goes into the wall.

I had no idea how I was able to effectively rip the pipe from the sink with barely a touch. Like finding out you have super-strength.

ONLY, you might have guessed it, but it was foreshadowed earlier on: turns out the screw that holds the drain-guard into place also holds the pipe in place. In fact, we had been massively lucky that it hadn’t dropped out earlier while we were waiting and possibly causing even more damage.

At any rate, we were able to take the pipe and get it completely cleaned out and get everything re-installed and cleaned up and working possibly better than has since we have moved in.

Never did make waffles, though. Sunday dinner ended up being cold cereal and sandwiches.

Did get the deep fryer cleaned. There’s that.

Putting Myself on a “Spending Freeze” for Two Months

This morning I made two sizeable purchases. One via a Belgian storefront for stuff like an automated cat feeder, some kitchen supplies, another air filter since allergies are whooping us, and some cat treats. The other purchase was from the US Amazon storefront and represents something like three+ months of stored-up shopping cart. Possibly the biggest Amazon order I’ve ever made but maybe not [not four digits big, just a lot of stuff at once, then with shipping and international handling fees and currency conversions and whatnot].

To explain the latter, when we moved I lost a decades-long history of streaming movies. Upwards of 200 movies. Most likely upwards of 300 movies. Stuff I’ve watched a lot. Genre classics. A fairly joyously curated list. And stuff from streaming services like Shudder which is not available here.

Something I started doing was picking up, through various methods — largely online — was high quality physical replacements of my favorite bits of that lost digital media. Some US versions but also UK, Belgian, French, German, Australian, Japanese, and so forth releases. I am finally at the effective end of that and today’s order was more or less wrapping it up.

Only, as soon as I clicked order I got kind of a icky feeling.

Not for what I ordered. Not for my at least momentary rampant consumerism. While this is something like twenty movies and that’s a fair lot, it does represent a fairly curated list and mostly definitive editions of everything on the list.

It’s just… I hit this moment where I’m kind of tired of buying things. Combined with stuff like pre-ordering the next year’s worth of Big Finish audios and some collector’s edition books — though of the “a lot cheaper” variety than my old indie book collecting days — it does represent a fair amount of money spent in the past two weeks.

Consuming media can be a black hole. Stuff where you spend more and more and then always look to a horizon. I am 100% opposed to the “clutter free” lifestyle that tends to prioritize streaming and the dissolution of ownership. I am also aware of my tendency to packrat and curate past the obvious choices. Stocking up on just-in-cases.

Anyhow, while I will no doubt enjoy and rewatch everything I ordered today multiple times, I think this vibe is a sign for me to call it quits right there. There are some pre-orders and outstanding crowd-funding. I have enough stuff to spend a good couple of months just enjoying.

Thus, from now until my birthday (30 May), I am going on a spending holiday. Taking a break from being a consumer whore, as it was.

While I promote ownership as a concept, especially curated ownership, you do really want to prioritize the stuff you will use and love.

This is my two months to do that.

And then maybe more but we’ll see.

Something I’m Pretty Sure Only I Do…

A couple of weeks ago, maybe, I took a screenshot from the top of a Reddit thread because I figured I’d get around to answering it:

“What’s something you’re pretty sure only you do?”

Now, here are two answers and one answer has two parts because I’m me.

FIRST ANSWER: We Do A Lot of Unique Things

Just a shout out to all us Space Pilgrims: when we look at specifics a lot of what we do is actually fairly unique. Absolutely no one else is in that cafe at that table and eating that donut but you. In cafes? Sure. At tables? Sure. Eating donuts? Sure.

And I suspect, but have no idea what kind of chaos computing super mainframe would be required to know, that it only takes a few facets of our activities before a significant number of everything we do is unique.

A lot of people might grow roses. A much smaller amount by specialize in a particular type of roses. Arranging them into patterns based on, I don’t know, famous Shakespeare plays?

I am deeply suspicious of a growing trend that tries to paint uniqueness as being cringe while also judging folks for being basic.

That being said, this is about me…

SECOND ANSWER: My “Unique” Stuff

To keep this lighter, let me say there are two things that come to mind.

“No Digs for Satan”

Not truly unique since both Kaz and I say this on a regular basis, and I think I got this from somewhere, but the phrase “No digs for Satan” shows up a lot in our household.

What does it mean? We generally use it to mean, “This topic is so off-the-table we won’t even consider it.” 0-stars is a review. “Did not like,” is an opinion. This is something below consideration.

As always when I think this hard about it, I try looking it up to see if there is any other references to it and got this from the “helpful” AI summary:

heh.

At any rate, I updated that older post today to point out it might have been, “No ribbits for Satan” but at any rate, I’m sticking to my own thing.

The Alabama Weird // GLOW // etc

Here’s one I’m more sure is definitely unique to me. Over on The Doug Alone, I play out multiple long-term solo RPGs set in alternate history Alabamas including a long running history of characters and locations cribbed from dozens of sources.

There are newspaper articles, fiction book series within the series, and multiple timelines that diverge depending on the campaign.

Some of those characters, like Amy Patel and Eustace Delmont, show up in different time lines as slightly different but interlinked characters. When stuff happens in a “future” timeline, it might get referenced and added to the lore to a “past” timeline, etc.

Eustace, by the way, is effectively a way for me to play a parody of myself and while in the cyberpunk-infused “The GLOW” version he is much more an angry, muscular guy, in the more “normal” Alabama Weird version, I simply just use my one photos modified in whatever style of art that fits that particular campaign arc:

He’s sort of like me if self-doubt was replaced with the simple bravado to fight all the strange things going on down in the swamps and small streets of lower Alabama.

Waking Up to the STINK

Foggy mornings are not rare in Grimbergen.

BUT, sometimes those foggy mornings have a way of trapping the smells and scents of absolutely everything at around head height. The fumes from the airplanes, the smell of pollen, the decay of grass.

This morning, I woke up, was getting out of bed, started to smell something…awful. For a few seconds, I got really angry at the cats for whatever the hell they had just did…and then decided to investigate.

Opened the front door and that’s what I realized just how well insulated our house is in general. It was worse outside. And there was that sound. Not unlike the scene in Dumb & Dumber where Jeff Daniels’ character tries to take a not quite stealth poo. If you don’t know the scene, just look at this GIF and imagine the sound:

Like a hundred tubes of cottage cheese being forcibly evacuated. Just a long phhlllbbttlllttt sound that would definitely be followed by a green fog in a 90s cartoon. It was rank.

There was a tractor in the field around 30m from our front door spraying a very organic fertilizer on the field.

The end result was a smell not unlike a port-a-potty left in the summer sun near the kind of race track where they serve egregious amounts of cheese and red meat.

I absolutely adore farmers and have no real issue with the process, but the mix of that being sprayed on a day when all smells are locked as tight as a 16-year-old girl’s diary…

It was a rough couple of hours until it dissipated.

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